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How to be the "best" Best Man
Our tips to being the "Best" Best Man possible ...
Whilst we all acknowledge that the groom is the man of the hour, but just like every superhero needs their sidekick, every groom needs their best man!
The role of best man is a great honour, and you will forever be remembered as a part of the biggest day in the grooms life; no pressure there then!
Having sorted out men across Australia with their wedding kilts for the last 17 years we like to think we know a bit about wedding etiquette and wedding outfits for the men.
Of course every wedding is different and some best men will play a bigger part in some weddings than in others. Therefore, we are here to provide the traditional best man duties to help guide you through the wedding process!
As soon as the groom has bestowed the honoured title of best man upon you, you need to start thinking about helping him sort out kilt outfits to hire or kilt purchase as soon as possible. This is one of the most important best man duties! Most times, the groom will choose the tartans and outfit styles, but it’s the best mans job to arrange fittings, collection or delivery and the return of the outfits after the occasion.
In most cases we know that women normally take charge when it comes to wedding planning and the groom may not even have a say in the cake, flowers, table plans or the venue. In fact; one of the grooms’ only tasks may be to find his chosen tartan and arrange his kilt; if this is one of the grooms few wedding tasks he simply has to get it right!
The bride will often stress so here is a top tip for scoring some best man points; ask the brides opinion on tartan! The groom may have chosen a family or clan tartan for his wedding however many grooms nowadays will pick a tartan to coordinate with wedding colours. The best man should ask the bride for a sample of fabric from the bridesmaids’ dresses so that the groom can consider every option when choosing his tartan. This is a sure fire way to keep every best man in the brides good books!
Traditional Best man duties will also include looking after the groom before, during and after the wedding. Keeping the man of the hour calm is important after all, it’s the biggest day of his life! Make sure you are on time and keeping the groom on schedule!
Another very important best man duties for the wedding day is looking after the rings. BEST MEN EVERYWHERE! WHATEVER YOU DO… DO NOT FORGET THE RINGS! The Best Man should prove himself reliable on the day so the groom is assured he made the best choice when picking you!
Probably the most famous best man duty is the bucks night! This is likely to be the highlight of the groom’s entire wedding experience (apart from the actual wedding day of course!). Top Tip: If there is one thing the Hangover movies taught us it is NEVER have the stag do the night before the wedding! The last thing the bride wants is a hung over hubby! Plan ahead and give you and your friends a few weeks to recover! Don’t forget, kilts aren’t just for weddings! Why not organize a group hire for you and your friends for the bucks? Australia Wide Kilt Hire has a great range of “party kilts” for hire, and they will make you stand out from the crowd and are a great conversation starter. Ask us about the range and price, you will be pleasantly surprised. Regardless of your attire, us Scots manage to make friends anywhere we go!!
The big finale to the best mans role is of course, the Speech! This is the part when you are under the spotlight. If nervous keep it short and sweet but remember to say how gorgeous the bride and her bridesmaids are and try not to embarrass the groom too much!
We always love to hear how you got on with the stag, the wedding…the whole wedding experience! So be sure to post any wedding pics on our Facebook page or Instagram page.
Don’t forget to visit www.kilthire.net.au to view our outfit styles and tartan range available.
Good luck with your Best Man role!


